Oh my God!!

Before I know it, I'm just 49 days away from our Solemnisation!?!?!?!
That's super fast!
And being just a solemnisation..the process will be over in just 10minutes.

All the hard work and preparation just for that 10min of vow exchange and signing of the deed.. the deed to give away my life and one that'll no longer belong to me, but one that i have to share with someone else...someone whom I love, and who loves me alot! :)

I'm glad, I'm happy, but I'm nervous too!!
Uncertainties... unknown...a new phase of life...
Thats soooo................................... i dunno what to say or how to describe...but its kindda scary at times when i think of it... but then, its a nice thing to have someone to share all ur happiness and joy....someone to turn to when u are angry or happy...
Someone you know you can rely on, reply upon, trust on, believe in, someone who'll just be there for you, whenever and wherever you need him....

That is a beautiful part of getting attached and married... but there're obviously 2 sides to a coin....and its just not Sunday everyday....so..... disagreements, disappointments, mismanagements will happen too....and this is something that we all have to deal with, and to learn from to be better.. no one is perfect...and i'm not perfect too....so just have to COMPROMISE and be MORE understanding and TOLERANT towards one another...

It's not going to be easy...and its not going to happen when one person puts in the effort.. it takes 2 hands to clap...and both parties must be willing to work it out TOGETHER and share with one another.... COMMUNICATION, another impt role to play to make a happy marrige....

Ahhhh... am i getting carried away or what???
Its all the kind of I-know-it-and-I-heard-about-it-before kindda stuffs... but its just different when u get down to DOING IT!!

So....let's jiayou together for our BETTER future!! :)

Amen! :)

-RacheL- blogged @ 3/21/2008 02:08:00 AM