This is not an easy feat..
On one hand.. you have ur dearest parents whom you respect and honor deeply to please...
and on the other.. you have ur dearest new love that you are looking to spend the rest of your life with....
Who do you agree with and who do you side?
What does a marriage do?
Do you have a sudden change of relationship with either your parents or your spouse?
Do you leave one side and cleave to the other dearly?
How do you communicate such that both parties would be happy in the end?
This is definitely an art... An Art to living with your loved ones...especially when they dun all come from the same bloodline....
It is very difficult..and my life doesnt get easy when either party stands by their principles..and do not give in...
God, please give me the wisdom to know how to say the right things at the right time, and to do the right things at the right time...
We are all trying to do our best.. to please one another...
Let's lower our expectations and accept a fact...when we know we cant change one....
It ain't gonna be easy..but we can all try.....
-RacheL- blogged @ 9/25/2008 11:13:00 PM
yes.. its 4:23am..and i cant sleep... urgh..
I've been rolling on the bed since 12plus... and i just cant get to sleep..and now.. i'm feeling a little groggy... sigh.. but still cant sleep.. my mind is very very active..and thinking of a lot of things!!
Gosh.. i'm going to be married off in a few hours time..and i havent been sleeping well since yesterday.. i slept at 4am..and got up at 7plus to vacuum and mop the floor!
And i didnt get to sleep today! Gosh.....
I hope i wont be like a panda later on.. hahaha.. :p
Its gonna be a fun and exciting day... its always being a jiemei for my good pals...
and suddenly, its my turn already!!! hahaha.. somehow..the thought is not exactly sinking in..
But well.. i guess i'll know what is reality once tonite comes....
Willing of myself totally to the one i love.. hahaha... and its so exciting....
I pray that life will get more loving and we'll learn to compromise and accomodate to one another more... its no longer me, I and myself.. but WE WE WE!
Yeah yeah... see?? i cant get to sleep..and i'm bloggin here... aiyoh..
BB will sure kill me if he knows about it.. nah.. i dun think he'll....
Sent him an sms.. but i think he must be sleeping like a log! Hahaha....
Alrite... looking forward to an exciting day..... hehe.. :P
Pray for good weather..and everything to turn up right on time at Orchid Country Club...
Then we can really really start on time..and end early!! Yeah!! :P
-RacheL- blogged @ 9/01/2008 04:23:00 AM
