This is not an easy feat..

On one hand.. you have ur dearest parents whom you respect and honor deeply to please...
and on the other.. you have ur dearest new love that you are looking to spend the rest of your life with....

Who do you agree with and who do you side?

What does a marriage do?
Do you have a sudden change of relationship with either your parents or your spouse?
Do you leave one side and cleave to the other dearly?

How do you communicate such that both parties would be happy in the end?

This is definitely an art... An Art to living with your loved ones...especially when they dun all come from the same bloodline....

It is very difficult..and my life doesnt get easy when either party stands by their principles..and do not give in...

God, please give me the wisdom to know how to say the right things at the right time, and to do the right things at the right time...
We are all trying to do our best.. to please one another...

Let's lower our expectations and accept a fact...when we know we cant change one....

It ain't gonna be easy..but we can all try.....

-RacheL- blogged @ 9/25/2008 11:13:00 PM